
I’ve been living in Portugal for more than four years now. I fell in love with the country and its people during my first visit in 2011 and I am still hopelessly smitten.
In recent years, Portugal has gained a lot of attention as a desirable retirement destination. I see a lot of people posting on the various expat Facebook groups asking questions about where they should live. My answer is always: visit the country in person. Internet research is helpful, but nothing compares to a first-hand experience!
That said, I will share a few quirky little tidbits I have learned about life in Portugal over the past four years. So, here goes.
Climate surprises
Portugal has a reputation of being a sunny warm country. Yes, the southern areas of Alentejo and The Algarve are typically hot and dry. But other areas not so much.
Guess what? It rains in Portugal. Sometimes it rains a lot. In the central and northern parts of the country–roughly from Lisbon north–the climate is much wetter and colder than the hotter, drier south. From my experience, the rainy season starts toward the end of October and lasts until near Christmas. Sometimes it will rain for days on end.
The rain in Portugal is often a heavy downpour–think Costa Rica. And all that moisture means….you guessed it… humidity.
Houses can be cold
A lot of Portuguese houses are not well insulated and they do not have a central heating system. This means they can be cold and damp. This is especially true if you buy an old stone house in the country. As one British expat put it, “A stone house is beautifully cool in summer, and bloody freezing in the winter!”
Almost everyone I have met talks about the problem of humidity. That means mold and mildew. Believe me, it’s not pleasant when you find clothes you haven’t worn in a while smell of mildew! Best advice: open windows when you can and buy a dehumidifier!
Tipping is not required
Having lived a lot of my early life in Europe and elsewhere, when I returned to the US and found that a big tip is expected for every kind of service, I was stunned. I mean, why should you tip at the Starbucks drivethru? Or add 20 percent to the cost of a mediocre meal at a chain restaurant. Anyway, that’s just my opinion.
In Portugal, chain restaurants are not the norm. Most are small, family run eateries which frequently have a regular set price lunch menu for working people. A couple of local restaurants I frequent offer a three-course meal–soup, fish or meat main course and dessert, with wine (Portugal produces so much wine)–for around 10 euros. Less than $12. A tip is not expected. If I give 1 Euro, it is greatly appreciated.
The experience is similar with my hairdresser or when using a taxi.
Toll roads can be expensive
I settled in central Portugal near a charming town called Tomar. Places like the historic university city of Coimbra or the famous surf beaches of Nazaré are about an hour away by car. Lisbon is a 90-minute drive. This is using a freeway or “autoestrada”. The freeways in Portugal are wonderfully traffic-free so you can get to your destination more easily than following the twisting secondary routes. But there is a reason they are traffic-free.
Once I settled, I began exploring, happily using these freeways. I saw gantries referring to tolls, but I never saw a toll booth. After several months I received a series of registered letters. Guess what? I had racked up more than 50 euros (nearly $60) in tolls and fines. Turns out the gantries have sensors that register your license plate. You have to pay the toll at a post office within four days or incur a fine.
My neighbors told me I should get a Via Verde device for my windshield. The device is linked to your bank account and the payment is made automatically. It’s all a learning curve.
Bathroom etiquette
This applies mostly to women. In many places in Portugal you will see a sign above the toilet asking you not to put anything in the bowl. This includes toilet paper. There will be a receptacle beside the toilet. Use it.
I have even found bathrooms where there is a huge roll of TP beside the sinks. You pull off what you need and take it into the stall with you.
One other thing. In many restaurant bathrooms, the light turns on when you go inside. The light may be on a timer. If you are plunged into darkness before you have finished your business, just wave your hands around. The lights are motion activated.
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